I just wanted to suggest that the terminology "Play or Do" is rather confusing and might benefit from slight elaboration or adjustment.
When I think of "Do"-ing someone or something in the context of sexual roleplaying, I immediately think of "doing" as in "having sex with" ... the end result being that the features that I want for my characters get confused with the features I want in my partners' characters, i.e. the characters I plan to "do," i.e. the characters I plan to have sex with. Does that make sense? I'm not expressing it very well, but having that "Play or Do" in there just throws me.
It looks to me like this is what's intended, if I'm reading the page properly:
For Sex and Gender, Dom/Sub, and Races/Species, the column headings could say
I like to play as a ... I like my partner to play as a ...
Then the choices "Females," "Hermaphrodites," "Dominants," etc. could be changed to the singular "Female," "Hermaphrodite," etc. to make the sentence structure clear to any reader.
For Characteristics, the column headings could say
I like my character to have ... I like my partner's character to have ...
For Vanilla and Fetishes, the column headings could say
I like to ... I like my partner's character to ...
And then the choices would list the actions, such as "Spank" or "Give Anal Sex," etc. Also, receiving actions could be specified separately -- "Be Spanked," "Receive Anal Sex," etc.
I'm not at all trying to suggest that my terminology or phrases are brilliant or definitive, all I'm saying is the current terms and phrases confuse me, and those are some ways they might be adjusted for better clarity. Just suggestions, sorry for the length, thanks for reading.