Your matriarch lady sounds great, Kunoichi! I'm sure she has many strong lovers and many powerful children (like me!). I do like the patriarchal nature of the orc tribes, because it gives female PCs a way to stand out through their accomplishments, either by going with the cultural mores (as yours does), or by defying them, like a warrior woman from one of the rebel groups.
I like how Luthic works, too. A society can't be 100% warriors, or it falls apart - that's why we're not all speaking Mongolian today. Her example is definitely how my character will expect his women to behave, whether they're orc subjects, or human or elf slaves.
I'll be taking Leadership too, naturally, so with my high Charisma I should have plenty of followers. I plan on having a wife who is a wizard/cleric, and generally good at the non-battle side of managing my followers.
I may take Craft Magic Arms and Armor, since I will be relying heavily on a good shield and suit of armour. That means I pay half gold cost for anything I can craft myself? What about the XP cost? How will that affect my starting level?
I look forward to seeing your ideas for our clan, Kunoichi! I'll gladly help with ideas, of course. No doubt we'll have the Fertility blessing?
Muse, would always be awesome to have you on the team, or as an ally or enemy!
Faeli, yeah, we're all happy to help you come up with an idea, I'm sure. Any thoughts so far?