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Offline KakujaTopic starter

Is something wrong with me?
« on: June 16, 2011, 08:23:11 AM »
I posted in the one on one looking forum and havent gotten a single nibble sure I havent been very active here, though even still you figure youll get some attention.
I don't know what I'm doing wrong but as far as I can see...This place may not be the best for me due to some of the fetishes I do have..So should I try again by posting a few RP ideas out, or should I just leave?

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Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #1 on: June 16, 2011, 08:26:33 AM »
All the advice from here is still good. :-)

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Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #2 on: June 16, 2011, 08:28:25 AM »
You can try posting a few more of your ideas.  You might also try the Ons & Offs in the tab at the very top of the page.  Setting up a profile for you Role Play Preferences can help others find you.  This is a search engine for members that functions in addition to the Forum Ons & Offs.

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Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #3 on: June 16, 2011, 08:31:43 AM »
Story ideas are weird beasts. You can put up what you think is an absolutely amazing idea, and watch as the tumbleweeds roll slowly over it. Put the same story up three months later and you're trampled by a stampede of people eager to do it.

The more stories you offer up, the better your odds that one will appeal enough to someone to want to take up. Variations on the same base story concept can also work. Change the setting, for example.

You could also look at others requests .. some people may be advertising something you'd find equally interesting.

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Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #4 on: June 16, 2011, 09:16:53 AM »
Linking your story idea in your signature (like you have with your O/O thread) is also a way to draw a few extra eyes. 

Offline KakujaTopic starter

Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #5 on: June 17, 2011, 10:45:13 PM »
Made an O/O thing now I just need to post more RP ideas...Which is the hard part...

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Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #6 on: June 17, 2011, 11:42:19 PM »
Also, socialising can get you partners. And it fills the quiet time between posts. ^_^

Offline KakujaTopic starter

Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #7 on: June 18, 2011, 08:59:49 AM »
Well yeah I could do that o.o now lets see...What to ad for....-goes around looking for players and thinking up ads-

Offline nishi

Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #8 on: June 18, 2011, 12:10:19 PM »
try spicing up your ons/offs list a bit, just add any number of kinks you are interested in. I got quite some people sending me PMs from people with similar interests/kinks (well mine are a bit broad though)

Offline KakujaTopic starter

Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #9 on: June 18, 2011, 07:44:08 PM »
I added as much as I could on that ...Ones that I was comfortable with....Not sure how I could possibly spice it up

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Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #10 on: June 18, 2011, 09:36:46 PM »
Just a note - you might want to make sure that the info in your O/O thread and your RP Preferences match.  Right now one says you're switch, leaning dominant, and the other one indicates only that you're submissive.

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Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #11 on: June 19, 2011, 12:36:19 AM »
As for spicing up your Ons/Offs post ... check out the O/O threads of the more established players and see how they do it.

Many not only include kinks, but settings and genres they enjoy ... both cannon and non cannon; what they expect from partners; what sort of stories they want to tell or try telling.

You can pick up a ton of ideas from other O/Os ... and as a female partner, it's very helpful to read an O/O thread that is well detailed and thought out. Personally, I'm more likely to choose a partner with a very detailed partner over one who says "just ask me".

Offline KakujaTopic starter

Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #12 on: June 19, 2011, 01:36:43 PM »
Just a note - you might want to make sure that the info in your O/O thread and your RP Preferences match.  Right now one says you're switch, leaning dominant, and the other one indicates only that you're submissive.

oh right ill fix that

umm I dont see what your talking about....
« Last Edit: June 19, 2011, 01:38:28 PM by Kakuja »

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Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #13 on: June 19, 2011, 03:18:42 PM »
From your Roleplaying Preferences, under your avatar:

Characters I Play
Male characters who: Submit,
And are attracted to: Females,

From your O/Os, linked in your signature:

I am switch but I lean towards a Dominate side of things but I am willing to try being a submissive. I like amines/mangas, cartoons, science channels, video games, drawing and writing stories.

Offline KakujaTopic starter

Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #14 on: June 19, 2011, 09:29:37 PM »
ohhh i see lemme fix that as im the sub ^^

Offline Maxwell Malamute

Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #15 on: June 24, 2011, 05:01:28 PM »
Hope your luck improves, but your not alone. I'm newer, but in the same boat...no nibbles, so far. I'm trying to post and be as social as I can in the mean-time, and trying to figure out how edit my siggy and put in links.

Well, good luck. Maybe we should start a 'My interests sre too obscure thread'  :P

Offline KakujaTopic starter

Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #16 on: June 26, 2011, 09:42:34 PM »
Hehehe maybe but I posted a one for one thing and so far no nibbles maybe Im posting wrong idk but...The worst thing about rpie places is the wait....

Offline Belle33

Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #17 on: June 30, 2011, 05:42:22 PM »
You might want to write a short story or two and posting them in the Storytelling forum (don't forget to link them to your signature).  I linked a few of my stories and poems to my signature, and was able to connect with people that way.  This provides readers with a hint of your writing style as well. 

While you're at it, you might review a few stories and provide feedback to those of interest.  Again, just something to start a dialogue.  I'm not sure about anyone else, but I haven't done an RP with anyone I didn't get to know a little first.  But, I'm fairly new and that may not generally be necessary. 

Of course, it might be also be a good idea to consider the story requests from other members.  Nothing wrong with a little quid pro quo.

Offline lollipop

Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #18 on: June 30, 2011, 05:52:10 PM »
Wonderful advice, Belle33. ~applauds~

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Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #19 on: July 01, 2011, 03:12:20 PM »
Indeed, very good advice, Belle33 :)

Though, now I'm worried I made my signature a little too long :/

Anyway, hello to you, Kakuja.  Nice to meet you!  Wish you the best of luck with your RP endeavors! :)

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Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #20 on: July 01, 2011, 03:22:57 PM »
You really don't need to include the 'if you are an approved L/L/L' bit - non members don't have access to PMs.  You could simply say 'I'm still mulling over ideas for my O/O's.  If you want to get to know me, feel free to PM!'  (or words to that effect.)

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Re: Is something wrong with me?
« Reply #21 on: July 01, 2011, 03:38:37 PM »
You really don't need to include the 'if you are an approved L/L/L' bit - non members don't have access to PMs.  You could simply say 'I'm still mulling over ideas for my O/O's.  If you want to get to know me, feel free to PM!'  (or words to that effect.)

Good point.