I know that I'm going to get all kinds of flack for saying this:
I really don't care what you do in your bedroom but when you slap it in my face then demand 'special' (their word, not mine) privileges, I have an issue. If you want to be treated differently because of your bedroom activities, go look somewhere else for sympathy because I'm tired of hearing about it.
The equal chance to pursue happiness is 'special'?
I can't speak for the OP, and maybe this isn't quite on the same page, but for me, I find it irritating when I talk to my gay friends and all they can talk about is how gay they are and how much of a shame it is to see so many straight people around them and just turn everything into a 'gay or straight' label. It almost seems as if they've dropped all their interests and things that make them uniquely 'them' to become some kind of annoying stereotype. It's irritating not because they're gay, but because they let it become their only defining trait. I understand that realizing you're gay is a big event and that it can feel very liberating to finally be open about it, but let's be honest...there's more in the world than the fact that you're attracted to the same gender. It's not (or at least shouldn't be) a defining characteristic of who you are.
I think the problem is you have a lot of really boring gay friends xD I'm only bi, and, thanks to my constant debates about this kind stuff, I end up talking about being gay/bi waaaaay more than my boyfriend, who IS gay, does. xD In fact, he rarely ever talks about it. Mostly he just talks about songs he has stuck in his head, Pokemon or other such nerdy/cute things xD That's not to say that no gay people are like that, but in my experience it isn't that big of a majority, though as previously stated, there is definitely a reason so many do act like that.
Being obnoxious is being obnoxious.
Yeah, who cares what kind of torment caused so many gay people to act this way, the important thing is that you're annoyed by it. Honestly, I find the constant stream of straitness from the media to be obnoxious. I seriously do. I mean, I'm bi, I like women too, but I'm just so sick of it. Every single thing Man meets Woman, Man charms Woman, Man sleeps with Woman, The End. It's dull, boring and obnoxious. I've seen it over and over again, and it's honestly gotten to the point where there needs to be some major catch, like... one or both of them are insane, some horrible past trauma, inter-species (not animals, fantasy/sci-fi species :I), incest etc. for a straight love story to really interest me. I mean, there are exceptions, but I'm going on a tangent. The point is that the constant stream of heterosexuality from the media has actually made me sick of straight romance. How come no one seems to be up in arms over that, but when there's like... two gay people kissing in a street, people start acting like it's the most horrifying thing in the world.