Approved members have access to other forums, where all kinds of (rules abiding) games can be told. The main forum page should be divided into three columns for you. The left column contains the boards open to the public, which are expected to be kept PG-13. The middle and right columns are only visible to approved members. The middle column is for discussion boards and the right column is for games, sorted into broad categories. Vanilla is for plain games, bondage is for games with bondage and light BDSM, Non-con human is for non-consensual scenes between mostly human characters (including elves and the like), Non-con exotic is for non-consensual scenes including sentient non-human characters (dragons, vampires, furries, etc.), and Extreme is for heavy sadism, gore, etc.
Wanted to get this out to you, and then I'm going to finish reading your post.