*giggles* i'm tempted to 'mock' Sherona just for the comic effect... that said, yes. She has a good point. Those of us who are more vivacious on line tend to get more offers of RP - just because we're more visibly friendly. It does take a lot more work to someone who feels a little out of place or awkward, to make friends, play in games, etc. that said, just because someone is seemingly popular, been her longer, is more visible, doesn't mean that won't welcome meeing you half way - With so many members, we can't go out and introduce ourselves to each and everyone, but i guarentee you, if you send us a PM or just take a moment to say hi or add your opinion, witty saying, what have you in an off topic forum, you will get good results...
by the way, i have to add this, just because i found it an eye opener - once again, i have been told that someone thought i was intimidating for the longest time... i'm just... speechless. Really, don't let those perceptions fool you - E is as much a community as an RP place and sometimes you just have to go knocking on neighbor's doors and introduce yourself. :)