First of all, I apologize for posting Crystal's e-mail, that was impolite on my part.
Second, I appreciate the private comments made to me. One person pointed out my behavior could be misconstrued as being a little stalkerish and I can see their point. Another did state they were able to employ means to determine Crystal was active on the internet recently (but did not share those means because-right fully so!-they do not know either me or her so they did not wish to give me the tools to contact her. Hey, I could be lying through my teeth for all she knows.), so while I would still like to get in touch with her the fact that she is still alive makes me feel considerably better and I can drop the matter.