For those of you who (ahem) have more clandestine posting habits, you can go to the Look and Layout settings in the profile. The Elliquiy theme is a bit of a less bandwidth intensive theme (though not much different yet). Also, disabling viewing of avatars may also help in such endeavors.
I'm not going to klaxon-blare this as an adult site, either. It will be in the agreement and the rules, of course, but this site is about roleplaying first, storytelling second, community third and porn somewhere down the line ^_^