In college I had a roommate who lent me a trilogy of books to read. (I'm pretty sure it was a trilogy...it was ten long years ago though so I could be mistaken.) I enjoyed it but then I married my uptight husband so I never bought the books for myself. Now that I'm coming out of my shell I would like to reread them as they were my first real introduction to a lot of the stuff we see here on E. I have no idea the name(s) or the author, or even any specifics so this might be difficult. If any of you book lovers like me out there could help me figure this out I would appreciate it.
Basically what I remember is this: A princess of some sort is sent away to another kingdom of sorts to learn all about sex. She is taught D&S, wears nipple chains, is tied up, whipped, the whole bit. There is M/F, F/F, M/M. At the end of the trilogy she goes home and a suitor comes to ask for her hand, I believe. She teaches him a 'lesson' and then sends him to this other kingdom where she had learned the 'tricks of the trade.'
Is this enough for anyone to help me?