Yet an other female here showing interest in your ressurected idea! I had a good read through and I was hit with an idea that could possible work well with, pretty much either of your revamped ideas (probably the first more than the second), but I would need at least one male character to bounce off, because I am already at my limit of playing male characters.
I had this notion that a Father had been hiding his daughter from the new regime, not wanting his only child to get eaten up in the system. This would open up an avenue for almost to full blown incest, that could eventually result her being forcibly taken from him and given to someone to recondition her.
Just a thought, you think this could work and if anyone is interested in this idea, please let me know, my PM box is always open. Bear in mind, that I am someone who tends to play on the way darker, extreme end of E, I am practically triggerless And that is something I really enjoy testing in play.