- I'm going to first just make a single list of key words I like in my scenes -- then below I'll list them again with more detailed personal descriptions of what they mean to me.
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The Top/Dom doesn’t always have be the good guy. I like playing the guy who should know better and doesn’t. He keeps crawling back because of how good the sex is, even if he’s treated like an object. Physical violence is also acceptable here, all the way up to throwing punches. See ‘Dirty Talk’, ‘Humiliation/Degradation’, and ‘Rough Sex’. | I love an age, and generation gap, between characters; up to a teenager with a middle aged guy. I prefer the older one to be the top in the scenario. I love calling a guy ‘Daddy’, or ‘Mister’, and I love him calling me any kind of ‘Sport’, ‘Boy’, ‘Son’, etc. | I love the idea of a hierarchy, and the sort of arrogance/superiority and inferiority that comes from established social orders. In a more twisted sense: I also love the A/B/O Trope – and interested in including the differentiated male biology. | |
I love arrogant guys with egos. Somebody who doesn't bother with putting effort into seducing because he knows he doesn't need to; somebody who moves with confidence. | Prefer to receive Anal: getting fucked, fingered, rimmed, toys, anything. As a bottom, I am willing to rim/finger tops, but I tend to find that conflicts with other fetishes. | Authority figures and uniforms are always hot, but what I love the most is people abusing their position of authority. This can range from cops, commanding officers, and prison guards to even people like coaches, landlords, spiritual leaders, or just mentors. People that you are supposed to trust abusing that bond for their own gain. | Absolutely love anybody with a typical 'bear' build and anybody that is 'blue collar.' I prefer guys to be strong and rough, with a bit of 'padding.' Facial hair and hairy chests are always a huge plus. Guys with 'blue collar' jobs, like construction workers, plumbers, truckers, tend to personify this. |
I'm actually very light on bondage. I'm not interested in any complicated machinery or contraption. I prefer to be held down by a man's strength, or secured with 'simpler' means. Handcuffs, chain, shredded clothing, etc. | There are very few Canon Characters I'm interested in, but am willing to consider any that fit the other things in this list. Wolverine and Sabertooth are probably my two most commonly lusted after canon characters. | Using alcohol, drugs, aphrodisiacs, magical potions – whatever. This is mostly about enforcing some pliable state that the Dom/Top can manipulate and abuse. See 'Mental Manipulation.' | I've always had an interest in crime and criminals. Any scenes revolving around criminals or 'underworld' activity will get my interest. Whether it's committing the crime, being on the run, being in jail, or even just trying to live life after on the 'outside.' |
Big surprise – I like cum. I like the detail of it, the way it fills a mouth or a hole, the overflow. I love any play with it – facials, bukkake, gokkun. I love the idea of marking with cum: on clothes or in hair in public places. I love the idea of a cum diet: putting cum in somebody’s drink or food, whether they’re in private or while they’re in public. Pretty much can’t go wrong with it. | Dirty talk always gets me going. There is never too much of it for me, get as aggressive as you want. Slut, bitch, faggot, cunt – nothing is off limits. I've actually been told I use it too much myself though, so feel free to tell me cut back on it if I get too into it. See 'Humiliation.' | I'm actually somewhat light on this compared to most. I like Domination so far in that I love when a top takes total control over a situation and makes it all about his pleasure. Fucking a bottom without considering their orgasm, making them do things to amuse them, even mundane tasks. | I find clothing to be just as hot, if not hotter, than a fully naked person. Descriptions showing how clothing does or doesn't shows off a person's body gets me going. Showing the wear and tear of how a person's lifestyle or environment effects the clothing is great too. Some favorites: jeans, flannel, leather, coveralls, uniforms (police, prison, firefighter, military, etc), boots/gloves, and kilts. |
I love being used in front of a crowd. I'm willing to write the crowd into my responses and use them like any other piece of scenery. This could be the thrill of people cheering them on, or some sort of public humiliation/degradation. | I'm always interested in RPing as/with fantasy races. Orcs, ogres, hobgoblins, dwarves, and demons are at the top of that list. Anything else is a case-by-case basis. | For me, 'forbidden sex' is sex that people aren't supposed to be having. Cheating on significant others; having sex with a friend of your Dad's behind his back; authority figures abusing power; sex with a rival. | I wrote this to simply say that I like furry characters; preferring full blown furries or transforming werewolves to catboys and the like. As long as the scene also includes other things from this list, I'm fine with putting a 'furry filter' across the whole thing. |
The more the merrier! In scenes involving group sex, I'm fine with RPing as the third (or fourth or so on) in the scene. We can use them as minor characters, or as full blown partners. See ‘Exhibition.' | For me, this is mostly in using the gun as a threat, and/or using it as a sex toy. This could be making a guy blow your gun, or fucking him with it, or firing the gun while fucking him. When using the gun as a threat, I’d prefer it was an empty one – not actually into being shot. Well, not most of the time. | For me, humiliation is the objectification of a character. Treating them like they serve no other purpose than the top's amusement and pleasure. Name calling, dirty talk, feminization, exhibition, etc. | Pretty self-explanatory. I prefer father/son, uncle/nephew, older brother/younger brother. For me it's about the taboo and the abuse of trust, and because of that, it’s important to me to have a good catalyst on why they’re suddenly having this taboo sex. |
I tend to play American men simply because that's what I know. While I'm also happy with American men, I've got a special soft spot for Latin men, Irish, Scottish, and Eastern Europeans (specifically Russians). | For my partners: I like my men to be 'men' in the most basic stereotypical terms. Any masculine accoutrements are also appreciated: cigars, scotch, confidence, and generally being in control of your sexuality. Any stereotypically 'feminine' traits will work against you here. I am more than happy to play a Feminine character, I just don’t like to play across from them. See 'Bears/Blue Collar.' | Typically this is due to alcohol, drugs, or aphrodisiacs making a bottom more pliable. This could also include some magic, and sometimes even mind control itself. In regards to drugs, I prefer 'fake' drugs than actual real drugs. Things we make up for the scene that have tailored effects for what we want. | These can be as subtle as something that takes mostly human form, or just using anthros, or a more traditional movie monster. I do like for them to be mostly humanoid, but otherwise I’m open to what features/shapes they have. See ‘Fantasy Creatures’ and ‘Unusual Anatomy’. |
I prefer 'Semi-NC' to full NC. Where guys don't know they want it and quickly learn, or guys that bite off more than they can chew and get in over their head, or they’re under some effect that removes inhibition. Full NC scenes will work for me sometimes; my only real aversion is that playing a rape victim is kind of boring. I can only say 'I cry and struggle' in so many different ways. See 'Rough Sex.' | This is the idea of M/M scenes where one character doesn’t identify as gay or bi. This could be ‘gay for pay’ scenarios, scenes where females aren’t available (any port in a storm), coercion from either side. I especially love the idea when a top is straight, but doesn’t see being the ‘top’ as gay (a mouth is a mouth) – or any sort of ‘rule’ that makes it not gay (As long as the balls don’t touch, or saying ‘no homo.’), as goofy as they usually are. | Sucking dick is always hot. Whether it's slow worship from a bottom, or a rough face-fuck -- it's always a good time. I will say that the act of a top sucking a bottom's dick will turn down the temperature of a scene for me. | Passion is what drives me. The loss of logical thought and a drive for sex above all else. If a guy is wishy-washy about what they want, it can make for an unsatisfying scene for me. For me, I even enjoy extremes where a target can become more Feral/Animalistic in his lusts. |
This is something I’m getting into more lately. I don’t have a huge amount of experience, but I’m eager to learn. For more, this is more about the behaviors, control, and limitations than it is about the clothing/gear. That being said, I do like the clothing/gear, but only as a humiliation aspect. I prefer ‘puppy’ flavor over ‘pony’ flavor. | Compared to most, I'm somewhat light in this. I love spit, sweat, cum, and piss. Sweat marks from clothing, from work or working out, is always hot. NO Scat and NO Vomit. | The key here is moderation, I'm looking for Walking Dead's Merle, not the Simpson's Cletus. Anything that could be advertised as an 'All American' or 'Good ol' Boy' will have my interest. See 'Bears/Blue Collar.' | Any sort of ritual is always appealing, even if most of it is nonsexual. This can be a fraternity initiation, a tribal rite of manhood, gang initiation, religious/cult sacrifice, or ritual spell gone wrong. |
Rough sex is the only sex for me. A top getting forceful and using his strength. Gripping, clawing/scratching, biting, and slapping are always welcome. Leave scratches, leave welts, leave bruises. This can be simple as forceful embraces to even throwing punches or full on beat-downs. | I like the tops to be larger than the bottoms in some way. This can be a big burly bear fucking a twink teenager, an actual 1’-3’ height difference, or even just the larger guy fucking the slightly less large guy. I like playing up how the bottom is 'inferior' to the top because of that size; as if the size helps determine why the bottom is the bottom. | I like big dicks, big balls, big loads. A large dick, to me, is a sign of masculinity and virility. I like the upper limits of realism; when something is so obscene that it becomes 'fantasy' outside of a fantasy settings, it has the opposite effect. I like to act out being stretched to my limits, and maybe even tearing a little; not being split in half. The exact 'maximum' I'm willing to work with in a scene differs per scene. | Whether they start off slutty or get turned into sluts, the idea of a bottom that is willing to do whatever the top wants. This includes glory hole, anonymous sex and strippers/prostitution. |
Sweat is always hot. It's a sign of a working man. Working up a sweat during sex just shows you're putting effort into it. | I’m really astonished there isn’t a better name for this. The idea that anything can be a dildo – beer bottles, wine bottles, flash lights, broom handles, baseballs, etc. The more creative you get with it, the better. For me, this is about the humiliation aspects, as well as the frenzied, passionate idea of grabbing anything nearby. | I’m mostly talking about unusual cocks: ridges, nubs, flares, knots, bulges. This also includes cum that is different in consistency, taste, or causes changes/addictions. I’m pretty open to including this, even in plots that seem mundane. | Being made to worship, or choosing to worship a top; either their whole body or even just their dick or body. This works fine for demanding tops, or more literally on demons or leaders. |
- Alpha/Beta/Omega: I am REALLY looking for play involving this theme. There is a very wide variation in how I want to apply this, and it's difficult to go into without being too verbose, without having a 'sounding board' of somebody to bounce this off of.
- Puppy Play: Can't get enough of this lately -- would love to see just how far/depraved this can get.
- 'Out of my League': I've been really interested in playing relationships that are taboo simply because one person is attractive and the other isn't inherently attractive.
- Weird Dicks: Maybe I've been looking at Bad Dragon dildos too much -- but the idea of knotted dicks, pearled dicks, dicks with flares/medial ridges have all been really appealing to me lately.
