That's the thing - she also does photography, and links to her business site in every single email she sends. I asked her if she'd be okay with someone running off as many of her hi-res prints as they wanted and only paying her once. She whinged about how they didn't 'tell her' that the hi-res photos couldn't be printed. I sent her a link to copyright law. She then asked 'What are you trying to tell me? Haven't you ever tried to get your way?? ?'
I told her that - having had a husband in the photo industry (Mr. Oniya, that is) - I wasn't going to give her any other answer, and as a photographer herself, she should have already known who owns the copyright.
There's a new email from her in my inbox. I'm leaving it alone. They can use me as the 'relative to gripe about' at Thanksgiving - spare the rest of the family.