<: you, assertive woman in her early 20s working on finishing your degree in gender studies, having invited him to join you in the library, during the quiet late evening hours on a Friday, with most students having descended unto town.
You need to be RL F, comfortable with taking on an assertive role to satisfy your kinky needs, to teach him equality and what it means, and what happens in its absence. No run of the mil bdsm / dom fetish play please. it's a library after all!
PS: quite how do I link to a URL without displaying the URL address as such in the [url] tag?