Something I have just noticed that is completely missing from the sexual elements part of the O/Os options is impact play. When your average person thinks "BDSM" they almost always think "whips and chains". Impact play is a huge part of BDSM and a huge part of many RPs on this site but there is no way for members to adequately quantify their preferences using the matrix.
There's a Pain and Torture section but to me that only actually covers Torture because the subheadings in there are all quite extreme.
May I make a suggestion?
The Pain and Torture section is renamed Torture.
A new Impact Play section is introduced and in there the subsections:
Being Spanked/Giving Spanking (the Spanking section will need deleting too)
Being Paddled/Giving Paddling
Being Flogged/Giving Flogging
Being Whipped/Giving Whipping
The idea is that these subsections increase in severity.
There could be another section entitled Impact Play Areas with subsections such as:
Though this might be an unnecessary complication.
I'd like to ask that this update in detail be considered for incorporation in any future version or update of the O/Os system. Thanks.