Character and romance driven plots anyone?

[satnis]

Hello! I'm new to the site, but not new to writing. I was hoping to find a partner to work on a F x F or M x F RP with me. I am looking to develop two specific characters at the moment, and they're both female, so I will be writing as a female in whatever role-play we chose.

A bit about my style:
I am active (i.e. addicted to my phone and generally available) and willing to RP every day, at least once a day. If circumstances get in the way, I will let you know--I hate leaving people hanging and I hate being left hanging. I will generally write 1-6 paragraphs in reply, depending on what is going on in the story and how much my partner is writing. I'll never hit you with a one liner, and I ask that you do the same. I'm also all for brainstorming plots out of character, and just talking about each others characters so that we both get a feel for what's going on. I'd like to believe that I have decent grammar, but I'm not a nazi and if you misspell something or use the same word twice in two sentences, I'm not going to chop your head of

What I'm looking for:
I'm into more modern, realistic settings. Fantasy is cool, but it's not what I'm looking for at the moment. Also, I don't want the story to revolve around sex, I'd rather it just be an element.

As for what the actual plot will be, I'm open to suggestions and would be more than willing to discuss ideas. Just let me know if you're interested and we can begin hashing it out!

Some additional information:
-I already have some OC's I intend to play as, since my primary usage for RPing is to develop my characters and help them grow.
-I am a sub/switch, but prefer sub.
-Interests lie mostly within the bdsm realm. Also enjoy reluctance, but am not into all out non-consensual stuff. I guess there's a fine line. 
-off limits are blood, scat, urine, and incest.