*big super comforting hugs*
You are not a failure. Circumstances brought you to this point. Like RP, every story has 2 sides, just as a coin has 2 sides. You didn't fail, life failed, circumstances failed, but not you. It takes 2 to make a marriage, a friendship, a RP, ...it takes two to make it or break it. That is life. You are not a failure. Not in the least.
I won't tell you to dry your eyes, in fact I will tell you to cry, because this is part of the healing process dear Rhedyn. Cry until you can't cry anymore, let those healing tears wash out the broken feeling, let those tears create the new improved Rhedyn. When a relation ends, it is likened to a death, here one day gone the next. So mourn your loss, grieve what was, then, when you are ready, you will start a new path, a path of positive healing energy, and you will be stronger for it. You will. I know, I have been there too, once upon a time ago.
It matters not what failed in the relationship, it matters that you grieve, then when you can, you add a little bit of knowledge to your belt, and go from their. Nothing is guaranteed to last forever, not even life. e are born we grow, we grow old and die, and then the cycle starts again, with a new life. So.. grieve and come out of this brand new.
*Hugs you tight and keeps you in my thoughts*
You will be alright, when it is your time to start growing again.