Thanks for being so direct in what you're seeking; any chance you can elaborate as to what kind of character you'd like to play, and what kind of scenario you have in mind?
It's rather difficult to do, as so much hinges on the precise details of my partner's preferences and the exact nature of the game. E.g. the character I would like to play in a system game within the setting is probably quite different than one I would play in a free-form dalliance. Scenarios like-wise.
However, I will enumerate some salient points:
-In a submissive role, but preferably not willingly so.
-Probably human, elven, or half-elven...maybe mul. I will think on that last one.
-A minor preference towards being male, just because I am playing a female character in pretty much every other game I am engaged in, and it would be nice for a change. This is not a necessity though.
-Dark, pain, violence, creepy all very yes. Remember that this is a world that was originally illustrated by the amazing Gerald Brom
-Apart from the above most everything is mutable. If I have to toss scenarios off the top of my head, these are the first things that occur: Sold into slavery to a deviant brothel; captured by Templars and used for sadistic experimentation; a preserver, veiled alliance member who is tortured and broken by defilers; human waste-lander captured by a sadistic tribe of elves or halflings; the list of possibilities is really quite extensive.