We all have them from time to time.
I love playing the submissive. Now that isn't to say I am good at it. Because my ideas of being submissive is different then most. I am one that likes to be mouth and playful and be put in her place, feeling the reins being pulled back.
So I guess I am looking for a playful Dom for this. Not hard ass my way or the highway. I see him more as her husband and yes he runs the house, gives her things she needs to do for the week or day whatever instead of her playing on the computer or shopping or sculpting her time away. When it isn't done she is punished in fun ways. Not in the hang her from the ceiling and beat her way. Though that could be done in a fun way.
Takes her out but tells her what to where or not wear as the case may be. Gets her to dance maybe to show off. Doesn't mean she will do it just because.
Anyhow, just a loose idea if anyone is will to discuss it. And I know this will probably never make it past here because is so hard to explain for me. Oh well worth a shot