Hi there! I'm Sho, one of your mentors. Sorry if I can't give you a link now...I'm typing this from my phone. To make an ons/offs thread, you should go to the ladies' ons and offs section, and click 'new topic'. This will allow you to create a thread. Then type in what turns you on and off. Click 'post'. To know whAt to write, I'd recommend taking a look at my own. It's linked in my signTure. I'll check in with you once I get to a real computer but I hope this helps!