Well...I like to listen to death metal a lot, and grindcore when having the really rough fun. I guess sometimes I find myself trying to keep up with the drumbeat but well, that can prove impossible sometimes!
...I wouldn't find it to be a very romantic music to listen to at times, with all the murder and such. I mean Cannibal Corpse's "Orgasm Through Torture" might sound good to some...but when you read the lyrics, well, it doesn't seem quite as fun, at least for the guy! lol