As a fair warning, I follow the Tao, which makes me a taoist, but taoism is less a religion and more a philosophy. My religion is something unusual and it does not make judgments at all based on what someone appears to be or acts like, but actually is.
The most obvious problem with that is 'how do you tell what someone is as opposed to what they seem like'? It's a matter of experience and understanding. If someone is intersexed and lives out a specific role according to their personal belief, and their behavior follows that belief, then that is what they are. If they are hiding from that facet of their life, then you can find out eventually, and all you can do is support them. Guiding people who are intersexed into becoming comfortable with their own existence, no matter what they choose that existence to be, is a duty and a privilege if it is allowed.
Now, note that I qualified that with 'if it is allowed'. One does not interfere without permission, even if it is tacitly understood they are seeking help. A person who needs guidance and counseling, if they are intersexed, and realizes that help and support is present if it is desired, may not always want that kind of help. It's a situation they may believe needs to be resolved by themselves. And that's fine - as long as they know the support is there if they need it.
However, that said, intersexed people have power. They can, if they want to, understand both sides of the world, yin and yang, and they have the capacity to draw from their duality. Yang and Yin have their own strengths and weaknesses, but the intersexed have a deeper understanding of their opposite side. Yin and Yang are not absolutes - they are situationally interchangeable, and further, they are not polarized perfectly. That dot means something - the presence of one in the other. Whether it is small or large does not amtter - and the power of Yin and Yang comes from their interaction with one another, not from their absoluteness. An intersexed person is, by definition, an example of an extreme interaction of Yin and Yang, and thus, has power, and to spare.
For those of you who wandered through that morass of information and philosophical/religious nonsense, I appreciate it.