I have sent you a message regarding your godmodding. In my RP experience (over a decade), what you just did...without talking to me as Eadric was someone I made up...is bad form.
Also, I am very aware of Basina's normal life expectancy if she is a widow (I have a degree in medieval history). She is not expected to stay in the village for long. Germanic society was such that she would have been assimilated into either Alaric's household after he married her sister, or assimilated into Eadric's brother's household if he had one. Such was the nature of Germanic Celtic culture. Provided the Romans would be straggling into her village, and the Romans tended to either slaughter or capture the women of villages...the outcome is easy to see.
I would appreciate that, if you are going to play a Celt, that you write your own character, and not just randomly grab one made up by someone else. Call it stealing, plagiarizing, godmodding, what have you, but I am very protective of my characters, and didn't appreciate the hijack as I saw it.