Definition: A woman aged 40 years or old who preys on younger men. During a hunt, she can often be spotted by her leopard print outfit, which makes her feel and look younger.
I had a good laugh at the leopard print bit. I think the term was coined a long time ago when people might actually have been able to wear leopard print without shame.
Anyway, yes, I seek an older woman! A cougar isn't necessarily dominant, she can still be submissive, or just neutral, though I tend to favor submissive types. She should be confident, voracious in her appetite, yet with a certain class, elegance, and a bit of maternal nature that comes with age and experience.
Specific roles to be decided based lots of things, so come share with me!