Seeking Willfully Submissive Male Characters for Femdom BDSM RPs

[Somniloquist]

Hey, I've been out of the habit of RPing and I'm looking to get back into it. I'll try to suggest some starter ideas, but note that I am customarily a character-driven player, so I'll frame them around my characters and make suggestions about yours. My ons and offs are available through my signature. Do note that I'm looking for IC BDSM-style play; as in, our characters are into the kink scene and will interact in that context. I will also say that openness to prostate play, your character being penetrated, etc., is mandatory. You don't need to be super experienced with it, it doesn't need to be every time, it can be approached after other things, etc., but it'll come up. I'll also reiterate the 'willfully' part; my characters won't trick or otherwise violate your character to this end. It'll be discussed and understood. Also, I don't do feminization, so approach accordingly.

I'll first suggest scenes with Sofia. While customarily played in an urban fantasy setting, I can do realistic play as well. She's the bassist for a cult-famous rock band. She's of Puerto Rican descent, in her mid-20s and very self-assured. Skinny gal, amazing hair. She would be a playful domme-in-training type; she's read a lot and knows some of what she likes and wants to do, but still needs practical experience. She is not a professional and has no ambitions to that end. More biographical information, as well as visual references, can be found in my Ons/Offs thread.

Plot-wise, I'm a fan of being straightforward with kink play. They can meet at a club, or through some kind of kink-focused forum, hookup app, at a kinky party (the name for those suddenly escapes me...), etc.. While having knowledge of her band is fine and good, I'm a touch less interested in the 'fan meets her and realizes she's kinky' approach than the type I've mentioned. I'm not closed to it, but I'd prefer someone familiar with the band hers is based off of so I don't get this situation of someone playing 'a fan' but the fan doesn't have any organic knowledge of what the band's like and how it's perceived and blah blah blah. Being the music nerd correcting players OOC sucks for all involved, lol.  

As for your character, I'll admit a preference for alt types, and not just your conventionally handsome white dude with excessive tattoos, lol. Non-white guys are good but I don't do racial kink at all, so I expect a proper character and not some weird caricature. Also ease up on any exotification if you are playing a white dude. Distinctive facial features are good. Average body types are fun; so are skinny fellas, chubby fellas. I'm not opposed to fit/muscular types but they're common and I have contrarian tendencies with that stuff, so y'know. Not very interested in femboy types. A pretty guy who longs to be accepted as more masculine can be fun, though, as can a big burly guy who likes to wear fishnets sometimes. More conceptually, there are many different angles to take. A guy who's also inexperienced can be fun because they can learn together. A more experienced sub can help her with technical aspects (i.e. bondage knots) and discuss how scenes go with her. 

She's most developed and most used, hence the rambling.

Second character is for furry play. She's a Kudu antelope named Victoria. Very classy/regal vibes, very experienced. She tends to lovingly tease/goad her subs. She's a kind of informal pro; she'll make herself known to those who want to pay but also hangs out at bondage clubs. As a character, she's something of a low-stakes fraud. She gets her nice clothes through working at a boutique, for the most part, and occasionally from subs. A lot of her whole Thing is coming off as a playfully haughty rich lady, so she's quite closed and goal-oriented when it comes to kink play, so people don't find out she lives in a modest apartment, etc. I'm a-OK doing a story-light RP with her where we do mostly kink stuff and that's basically what she's for, but in sufficiently successful long-term plays, I might be good for exploring 'the real Victoria' and not just the one who has her subs call her Queen. 

I really like playing her against predator animals, because subverting the predator/prey dynamic - and dealing with the lingering presence of predatory urges - interests me. I only got into furry stuff after watching/reading Beastars and that predator/prey framing is what interests me, rather than the larger 'fursona' culture. Aesthetically, I enjoy natural fur/scale coloration, using existing fur as hair styling rather than giving the fur human hair, etc.. I won't auto-reject characters with hair or dyed fur, but I'll likely lose interest if it's a very fur suit aesthetic. No animus against furries at all but doing furry at all is a toe-dipping thing for me, so I'm picky.

The final option would be me making a new character, for whom I have Grace Bergere in mind as a FC. She'd be a professional Domme. Likely an OnlyFans presence. Early to mid-30s. I'm leaning on the strict, formal, disciplinary end for domination style in a professional context, with room for being more loose and playful with friends and/or lovers. We could do some character building with her together. This is just me thinking about playing a modern character who does sex work, paired with my distaste for feminine submission. I don't even know her name yet, lol. 

Anyway, if you're interested, throw me a PM or find me on discord. Thanks!