I used to play a kajira on a Gorean website many years back. I suspect that part of the reason these games don't get far in the group games has to do with the fact that kajira are wildly boring to play in a group game. They're not allowed to speak without permission, and they can't really participate in plot, so the writer is pretty much left with posts of descriptive fluff that add nothing to the game besides decoration. Their only real chance to roleplay comes in describing the pretty way they serve or during sex scenes. I suspect that may be why you don't get many women who want to play in Gor.
That could be true if that's how the existence is here. It wasn't really like that the 4-5 years I spent in Gor in the early 2000s unless the Men were idiots...which there were plenty of those too.
The girls were always doing something whether it be chores, training another, practicing, were there to entertain via conversation, dance, furs, serves, etc. All depended upon the home. However, if that's how they are elsewhere....what you described, or are here...then that would be most off putting and make me not want to participate! LOL
Some homes I was in or participated with over the years the girls would be kidnapped when camps were raided, they were bought/sold, captured, etc. No reason for a girl to simply sit there being silent and looking pretty, doing a serve, or just for sex...those types are the primary reasons I left Gor.
The men and women were just all about the sex...the men were simply domineering wannabes. *shrugs*
wouldn't blame you for leaving or for any other woman not wanting to participate if what you described was their experience.