Just a quick aside: I think a great place to advertise Elliquiy that might not cost an arm and a leg, and not offend the vanilla community, is Fetlife. As in the website, of course. A site dedicated to kinky-minded adults, but without the focus on writing. Fetlife could also help with the vetting process to enter Elliquiy, I believe. If a new applicant provides their Fet username, their friends and other they know in real life could be contacted, for lack of a better term, as character witnesses. Just a thought to throw out there. Ta!