Ok I am going through the things with my character wanting her to be able to seduce people and to turn people's head. What in earth shall I take? What I can find there aren't that many charm that actually does that...
Checked on Lunars as well and they had even less.
I will be a good healer as well...
High appearance. You want atleast appearance 5 if you're going for 'Could shame the ladies of the Dynastic courts'. Presence is the ability used for seduction, iirc, so a Presence Excellency covers that, as well.
There are no insta-heal charms for Exalted. The closest you can get to insta-heal is by summoning up Demons and Elementals to Heal, or using an old Lunars 1e charm, which was pretty much the only good thing from that book.
Mind, compared to normal healing times, Solars can force others and themselves to heal insanely quickly
with a charm in a combo, but it's still going to take a day of in-game time.
Lunars are actually better suited to getting higher appearance, as they have charms that can increase all, yes, all
physical attributes. Appearance 5 is the human maximum, and Lunars can spend essence to get up to Appearance 10