I figure that there's a bit in the code somewhere that assigns certain characteristics as 'desirable' in women and 'undesirable' in men, and vice versa. (Pfeh!) If your answers were identical other than gender, that would probably account for the difference.
(I do know some people who behave quite differently when they are presenting as their preferred gender as opposed to their biological sex, or when they are in 'male state' as opposed to 'female state', and would therefore have different answers for each. I don't know if that fits with your situation, though.)