I think it depends on the college, I know some limit bandwidth. Simple fact is, you are over 18. E is a site that does not violate US laws. The school wants to give you a hard time, they can damn well show you where in the agreement you made with them that states you can't visit such sites. (There might be a morality clause in the contract you made with them but you could still fight that.) I'd say don't worry about it. Also, if they tell your parents, hit them up for violation of privacy and defamation of character. You are over 18, your parents are no longer your legal guardians. Unless you specifically grant permission, the school cannot tell your parents personal information about you. Note, I am not a legal authority just going on best guess and common sense here.