Sorry this took me a bit, it's been a busy couple of weeks with holidays, birthdays, etc. Anyway...
The state of my internal hard drive is exactly what I expect it to be, that's not what I'm debating at all. I mentioned the drive because even if windows made a backup of it I didn't know about, it still couldn't take up the whole external drive, it's 4 times as big.
RpG, do you have another computer that you can hook the external hard drive up to and check the disk space?
I saw my sister this last weekend, and I brought the drive with me so I could test. Unfortunately, it also reads as full on her computer as well, so I'm guessing that means whatever the problem is is with my drive.
I took a couple of screenshots, hopefully this will clarify a few things. Here's the disc when I right click from my computer and select properties;

It used to be completely full, but I deleted some stuff just to see if the space would disappear, and thankfully, it did not, so now I have a few gigs free, but still, over 400 used....

Here is the root menu in the drive, with the sum of all the files to the right after I highlighted it all and clicked properties. I made sure to have hidden files showing as well for this. As you can see, I can account for about 80 of the 400+ 'used' gigs of memory...
Edit; removed my name and my son's from the image of the folders.