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Offline badsamTopic starter

curiosity about roleplay
« on: August 24, 2011, 01:08:25 AM »
This is my first post as a member of the community so I wish to start greeting all :)
During my approval path, a really interesting question was posted for me (I don't specify the name here because I don't know if he will be ok with that ) ... and I would like to know what you think about this topic.

his is a quote I really like, a lot: “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” – How would you like to make people feel?

Well.. my answer was:

I think that the sentence you quoted is very interesting, and very deep.
The first answer is surely that I want them to feel good, I want them to feel better after that they encountered me than before.
But as almost always, the first answer isn't complete;) I think that the main topic is how does a person want to feel, what he/she is interested in, what he/she is looking for. and that is what I want, I want them to enjoy the chat or the role play session, but for this to come true, it is important for me to understand them.
In the end I think that the important for me is to make other feel understood. Yes, understood here is for me the key-word.
I'm really interested in other opinion, but I don't think this is the right place, correct me if I' m wrong.

What do you think about that?

PS: If this is not the correct place to post this kind of things, I apologize

Offline Oniya

Re: curiosity about roleplay
« Reply #1 on: August 25, 2011, 12:31:26 AM »
That's actually a very admirable way to want to make someone feel.  It goes beyond any of the standard 'feelings', because it takes active listening - which is a talent that not everyone takes the time to use.

Offline badsamTopic starter

Re: curiosity about roleplay
« Reply #2 on: August 25, 2011, 01:44:20 AM »
Well... to be honest It is really hard.... and not always I feel like I hit the right target... but at least that is the target :)
I'm very curious about what other want the partner to feels like ;)