romance... going out of your way to do something wonderful for your loved one, something that only means something to you because if means so much to them, and fully investing yourself in it. If you hate baseball, but your SO loves it, then taking them out to the ball park, and not just enduring the game, but really putting all your effort into enjoying it - buy hot dogs and beer and root for the home team, learn the rules, wear the team colors... a silly example, i know, but that's really what makes me feel romantic. Knowing that someone loves me enough to try to want to be a part of something that means the world to me. It doesn't all have to be candle lit dinners and soft light. Sometimes it's just sitting thru a movie that you don't care for and enjoying it soley because it is your SOs favorite movie.