I think what Nessy is saying is that the conversation isn't retrievable at this point.
Am I right?
Harassment over IM is indeed reportable, and is taken just as seriously as harassment through the E forum and PM system.
That's correct. I don't typically save IMs, so there is no way to reproduce that conversation.
I am hesitant with the harassment part. When I ended the conversation and let him know we were not going to continue talking to each other, he left of few parting shots trying to imply it was my fault for contacting him the first place and that clearly I don't RP NC or extreme properly. He hasn't contacted me since, well he couldn't unless he went out of his way to get around blocks. It was still... I've had conversations before out getting likes in story ideas and dislikes out, this just felt so different even the PM had a line that made me hesitate but wasn't like there were alarm bells going off, maybe there should have been.
since you do not seem to play female aggressors, though I believe you can be persuaded to eventually if things between us gets steamy and very arousing.
See something like that I usually shrug at and think we're probably going to broach this topic, which is fine, and eventually we'll come up with something that works or my limit will be respected... which in this case didn't happen.
I am probably going on about this too long, but it left a pretty lasting unpleasant impression.