Why does it suck so much when you move? Granted, you could be moving for any number of reasons: Closer to work, rent is cheaper, moving in with a significat other to save money. I've been helping my other half move for the past week and a half, and it feels as tho nothing I do to help with the move is good enough for him. I boxed up everything, and did most of teh dishes. A friend of ours cleaned the bathroom and the kitchen and the rest of the dishes all while the 2 of us were dealing with our combined 6 kids. Our friend has 4 and i have 2. I feel all I've had happen to me lately is getting fussed at by my SO, and I just don't understand why.