@Autumn *offers big hugs!!* I am so sorry, I only read the profile bits around your avatar this morning and saw Xandi! What a lovely discovery.
It is so good to see you and I am so glad you are enjoying this thread. I'm not a perfect gardener by any stretch of the imagination, I am very much learning all the time. This morning was a prime example, I went out to water the polytunnels and saw we had courgettes coming through but our slugs love the flowers unfortunately so I never get to use them in salads or anything but I would love to. So that is something I want to do this summer, is get to the gorgeous flowers before the slugs but also to read up more on eating the courgette flowers. And somewhere between here and last year, I have forgotten when it is best to harvest the courgettes. I definitely don't want them to get as big as a marrow, so I will need to keep an eye on them.
I got one fern late last year, well around Autumn time and planted it in. It really doesn't look as if it is doing good at all. I'll get a photo of it for you, but I'll keep an eye on it. The dogs tend to race through the flower gardens when they hear a car so break and damage a lot of baby, new stuff. And trust me, you got this. I started with a herb garden in pots on my window sill, and succulents because I genuinely seemed to have 'death' fingers instead of green fingers. So much so that I was only put in charge of sorting the weeds in the garden for the longest time. I think believing you can and are ready is part of the battle but also have fun with it.
*HUGS*