On Getting Ahead Financially

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TaintedAndDelish


I've always wanted to get ahead financially, but it almost feels like I'm stuck in my current class. Its almost as if there's a cast system in place and no upward mobility. It looks as if very few people really make it from low class to middle or from middle to upper. In the US, we've always been told that this is the land of opportunity, that anyone can just pick themselves up by the boot straps and climb all the way up. This may be true in theory,  but it seems to be a lot harder that it actually sounds.

I have to wonder sometimes how much of this is due to not knowing how to play the game so to speak, one's starting resources, and how much of it has to do with one's attitude and disposition. If you compare this to a game of monopoly, someone who knows how to play the game well will have a much better chance at winning. Likewise, those who start off with more money will also have an improved chance - in the beginning, at least. Those who play carelessly because they are convinced that they will loose are also at a great disadvantage as they will miss opportunities that the more positive, hopeful folks will snap up.

I've tried looking for information on how to get ahead online, but most of what I tend to find is rather questionable - ie. smug people in suits selling success courses for three *low* payments of 99.99, Tony Robbins' hype sessions and so on.

So I'm curious.. what has actually worked for you? Do you know of any credible, useful sources of information on getting ahead? What are your thoughts on getting ahead?

As for what has worked for me thus far, I started out with no money for college and no trade. I had a place to live and food. I started out doing lots of crappy jobs ( mcDonalds, unloading trucks, stocking shelves etc..)  and eventually started reading books on how to fix computers. It was an area that interested me. Slowly, I was able to move from being the grunt who greased and fixed the sweaty exercise equipment in a local gym, to the guy who replaced broken computer terminals. As I bought more books in Barnes and Nobel, I was able to start troubleshooting computer problems. I built a small network for my employer, I built their website and put them on the web. Each job I moved to after that paid more and gave me more exposure  and room to expand. I would say that I've got about as far as I can as an employee at this point and am looking for ways to go farther. It seems that to go farther, I need to play the game differently.... but the rules to the game seem to be some sort of secret?



Valthazar

Like you did, I think it is better to be patient and develop yourself and your life in other ways for a period of time, and then later on, if you want, you can pay for college or a trade school out of pocket, rather than debt.  If you want to rise up in your field, maybe you can occasionally write some computer science related articles for a newspaper or two?  It may seem silly, but it really helps to have a 'record' of your knowledge in a given field, versus simply your employees knowing your skills.  Maybe consider putting together an article of some sort based on a computer science related topic and try to submit it for an academic journal of some kind.  I don't think this is a means to an end, but if you are really passionate about a given area, this sort of thing is a way to manifest that in the public, and have people outside of your job/business be exposed to your knowledge about that area.

I just decided to mention the writing idea since I am guessing most people on E enjoy writing, and are very good at communicating ideas in words.  I think the secret to success is in having exposure, and having others become aware of what you have to offer that others don't have.

RubySlippers

Some advice I assume you file taxes take as much as work as you can for cash and not report that, no reporting not tax liability so its more money in your pocket. Not all you should pay taxes in income you have a paper trail for but for some jobs take cash and offer a small discount in the long run you will make more.

But why is financially "getting ahead" so important if your comfortable and have a good life shouldn't that be more important?

TaintedAndDelish

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Quote from: RubySlippers on July 08, 2013, 12:23:53 PM
Some advice I assume you file taxes take as much as work as you can for cash and not report that, no reporting not tax liability so its more money in your pocket. Not all you should pay taxes in income you have a paper trail for but for some jobs take cash and offer a small discount in the long run you will make more.

But why is financially "getting ahead" so important if your comfortable and have a good life shouldn't that be more important?

Heh heh ... because I'm not comfortable with what I currently have. I want much more. You live only [one] life, so why not make the most out of it financially? :)

Retribution

#4
I am no financial expert but from everything I have read most people who do really well get there one of two ways. Or a combination of the two. The first being just plain dumb luck and the other being insane amounts of work. For myself over time I have bettered my situation but to be honest I like my play time too much to get rich. So call me comfortable because I know people who have gotten very wealthy but worked so hard at it that I see it as sad because they are destined to be the most wealthy people in the cemetery.

For an example of the combination of the two approach look at Phil Robertson's book Happy, Happy. Now I have blown a Duck Commander call since long before it was cool and the success the Robertson family is having now is just crazy. There was indeed a lot of luck in it though because if you read Phil's book you will find he dumped a teaching career and a chance at pro football to become of all things a commercial fisherman. He just was not happy with the grind took a chance, a big chance and look where the Robertsons are now. But I think when one takes those chances they take a risk. The more risk the more reward as a general rule.

As for your personal situation as you describe it sounds like you might be at that do you want to take a big risk stage. It can go big or make you go broke it is after all a toss of the dice. In your case it could be something like breaking away to start your own business. Another reference point for this approach is the History Channel Series The Men Who Built America. Thing is shows like that do not show how many people took the same risk and ended up going bust.

As for Ruby Slippers idea with all due respect playing loose with tax laws is not a good plan. Just ask Willie Nelsen or Al Capone for example. My general impression is that one can get away with about anything in America but failing to pay their taxes. Using the example of Capone he killed who knows how many and never did a day in jail for it. They got him on tax evasion.

Mithlomwen

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Ultimately, the most reliable way to get ahead is either
1) Invest,
2) Provide a service where service is currently lacking.

Figuring out what that service is can take insight, being able to fulfill it, effort and skill.

Investing is typically slower, still requires insight (knowing where) effort and skill (research and number-crunching).

Tairis

Time, effort, a dash of politics and luck.

I'm not exactly making bank but I'm doing fairly well at the company I'm with. Showing initiative and being willing to tackle the more challenging tasks rather than avoiding them due to 'risk' can help you move up in the more corporate fashion. You do have to be politically aware in those sorts of scenarios, though, as you could do something that reflects poorly on one of the people you're trying to get to promote you. And unless the thing you're doing is so drastic that THAT person's boss takes an immediate personal interest you might shoot yourself in the foot.
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Trieste

I see a lot of mentions of luck, here. I'm not sure that all this faith should be placed in 'luck'. I am not wealthy (far from it, honestly), but I am fairly successful at other things. It's my experience that if luck has something to do with your success, whatever sphere in which you've found your success, then that success is bound to be short-lived. Long-term success often depends on a combination of foreplanning, calculated risk-taking, foreplanning, hard work, foreplanning, time management, and did I mention the planning part? Setting a goal is the first step, but it's the easy part. You set a goal and then you sit down and come up with a realistic strategy for achieving it. You talk to others who have achieved the goal you wish to achieve. You talk to experts. Sometimes, people who have done it are the same as the experts - and sometimes they are not the same. Either way. You learn from them. You talk up your goal to other people as much as you can. You network, and you pick others' brains, and you try to come up with every scenario you can in which things will go wrong... and you figure out what you would do about it if it were happening. And you keep doing all of this as you progress toward your goal. You revise your strategy as-needed, even along the way. The only role that luck has in it is that luck occasionally comes along and makes a step that you were planning to take easier on you - luck never takes the place of one of your steps, though. Ever. I wouldn't go so far as to say you make your own luck, but I would probably call luck overrated.

Hope that helps.

TaintedAndDelish

Good stuff so far....  Keep it coming. Your advice might be the next person's gold mine. :)

One thing I didn't mention was head hunters and sectors. I found that some sectors pay more than others for the same work. Ie. Getting a job as a sys admin for a public school versus a financial institution will pay quite differently. Also working as a employee versus a consultant will result in different combinations of compensation and different levels of preference and prestige. 

Regarding head hunters, the first few that I dealt with ( about 10 years ago ) tried to low ball me on job offers. They had employers who needed people with particular skills but were paying a little less than I was already making. I was told that that's all I could possibly get - that's all I was worth. I would need a degree in X or Y or some other out-of-my-grasp achievement to get a higher salary. Sadly, I believed them but I didn't bite. The next head hunter that I met ( a week or so later ) got me a job making almost double what I was making. I was absolutely floored and didn't understand how it was possible. What I came to realize was that they were just looking to fill positions for their employer clients. They were just as quick to tell me that I was worth less than I was as they were to tell an employer that I was worth more than I was just to fill a position and take their finder's fee. The lesson I learned was that head hunters can work for or against you. If one doesn't have a decent job to fill, then move on to the next. If you suspect that you are worth more that what's offered, then shop around some more - possibly in a more lucrative sector.


Trieste

Well, and knowing what's going on in your prospective sectors can help, too. Like, in digital forensics, working public sector won't pay well, but there are some positions that will get you some awesome experience. I know a couple people who were offered a starting salary of about 80k for a private sector job... same-ish job in the public sector  pays about 50 or 60k starting. However, about two or three years of experience in that public sector job will send the same private sector company looking for you, only they'll be offering you six figures for starting pay. Just for a few years of experience (granted, hard experience) in the public sector.

So in the short run, sure, it pays to head private sector. In the long run, it pays to detour to public sector first, and that is not the case with every job. So be aware of things like that.

Valthazar

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I thought you were looking more for career advancement advice, which would naturally yield financial stability.  But if your focus is purely financial, having stability is actually a lot easier than a lot of people think.

For example, let me give you an extreme case:

Assume a man is 45.  He earns $35,000 in gross take-home income.  $0 in retirement savings so far, and no home equity since he is an apartment renter.  He also has $0 in existing savings due to reasons beyond his control.  For this particular example, since it is the worst extreme, let us also assume that he will get $0 in social security when he retires.  Assume that he will retire in 20 years, and plans to stay retired for 20 years (for a life expectancy of 85).  If you were more realistic, you could make it 75, which would make retirement saving even easier.

If you use very conservative, low-risk, long-term mutual funds, which focus heavily on bonds rather than stocks, saving $1284 per month total, will yield $717,308 by age 65, in terms of future inflated dollar worth.  You can verify these calculations below.  There are other retirement calculators that differ in how conservative/risky your investment strategy is, but I usually tend to be risk-averse so I prefer being low-risk, 4-5% annual returns.

http://www.kiplinger.com/tool/retirement/T047-S001-retirement-savings-calculator-how-much-money-do-i/index.php

Financial stability has more to do with frugal living, and living within your means.

TaintedAndDelish

Quote from: ValthazarElite on July 10, 2013, 03:06:58 PM
I thought you were looking more for career advancement advice, which would naturally yield financial stability.  But if your focus is purely financial, having stability is actually a lot easier than a lot of people think.

For example, let me give you an extreme case:

Assume a man is 45.  He earns $35,000 in gross take-home income.  $0 in retirement savings so far, and no home equity since he is an apartment renter.  He also has $0 in existing savings due to reasons beyond his control.  For this particular example, since it is the worst extreme, let us also assume that he will get $0 in social security when he retires.  Assume that he will retire in 20 years, and plans to stay retired for 20 years (for a life expectancy of 85).  If you were more realistic, you could make it 75, which would make retirement saving even easier.

If you use very conservative, low-risk, long-term mutual funds, which focus heavily on bonds rather than stocks, saving $1284 per month total, will yield $717,308 by age 65, in terms of future inflated dollar worth.  You can verify these calculations below.  There are other retirement calculators that differ in how conservative/risky your investment strategy is, but I usually tend to be risk-averse so I prefer being low-risk, 4-5% annual returns.

http://www.kiplinger.com/tool/retirement/T047-S001-retirement-savings-calculator-how-much-money-do-i/index.php

Financial stability has more to do with frugal living, and living within your means.

I think the topic should be somewhat broad so sure, its fine. The goal that I have in mind is to both contribute and reap information that will aid in getting ahead. Advice on career advancement, personal finance, networking, mentoring and so on would definitely fall into that category.

Being socially retarded, I've always wondered just how interpersonal networking works. I know people somehow get ahead financially by networking... they exchange contacts and what have you, but what exactly does one with these contacts? Anyone have any insight on this sort of thing? ( I know... I'm a little dumb like that... *shrugs )


Oniya

Networking:  Let's say that you fix someone's computer, and do a fabulous job at it.  You manage to save important files that he thought were lost on the brick of his hard drive.  Best case scenario, you hand the guy a card with your name on it 'in case he has trouble again.'  Worst case, you rely on his memory.  Later on, he doesn't have a problem, but his boss has a problem.  He says 'Hey, I know this guy...' and the boss calls you.  You do another bang-up job.  Maybe the boss has been looking for someone to work his IT help desk.  He puts in a word to the hiring manager...
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alextaylor

What's worked very, very well for me:
Spend 10% of your income on charity
Spend 40%-50% of your income on investments
Enjoy the rest.

This does put tremendous pressure on your finances at first, but you should be able to adapt if you're decently smart. Start of last year, I was making $300/month. Now I'm making $5k a month.

Investments are in the form of opportunity. Sometimes you come across good land for cheap. Sometimes there's a gold rush on something, the next dotcom or mobile bubble. I made quite a few thousands on gold over the last few years just by investing into gold. Didn't expect it to go up as fast as it did.

If you don't have money stockpiled somewhere, you're not able to invest in anything. Business is rarely about what, it's about when. Facebook, Microsoft, Google all worked because they were in the right place at the right time. Something always happens which gives you a chance to make a lot of money. If you don't have the money set aside to start it off, you've missed a major opportunity.

The charity bit keeps you from getting greedy. If you start a business, it's seriously tempting to screw over everyone to 'survive'. You're tempted to mooch off richer people for lunch. You're tempted to claim everything. You're tempted to pay employees wages so low that they can barely afford the bus to work. If you get greedy, people won't work with you, customers won't want to buy from you, and your product will suffer. Charity also gives you a positive aura. And it does help when you have a lot of money reserved for charity, and dump a large amount of money into someone's lap.

Charity also doubles up as networking. Everyone loves being around charitable people. 10% is a lot, and easily puts you in the list of top 1% donors. Guess who else is on that list... many other multimillionaires, and the type who won't try to screw you over!


On networking:
Talk to everyone. Like you do here.
If you know someone you respect and like, approach them. You lose nothing if they turn you away and make a good friend if you click.
If you have a good conversation, make sure you get their number AND make sure you follow up.
Join clubs related to where you want your career to go.

I'm antisocial, but I force myself to do it. Find a topic both of you like, discuss. That's networking.

I spent a month looking on job hunting sites, didn't get a job. I then tried asking random Facebook friends for a job. One of them was a friend of my mother. Got a job with just a few days on Facebook. Was overworked, underpaid for a year, but still a good job with lots of experience.

I got poached for double the salary by a freelancer I was working with, who saw me doing a dedicated job. I got higher profile projects, more people saw me doing a good job, and pay just kept going up. That's how networking works. That's also why business cards are so powerful. The "Hey, I know this girl..." phenomenon kicks in a lot.
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Tairis

Quote from: Trieste on July 09, 2013, 09:56:13 PM
I see a lot of mentions of luck, here. I'm not sure that all this faith should be placed in 'luck'. I am not wealthy (far from it, honestly), but I am fairly successful at other things. It's my experience that if luck has something to do with your success, whatever sphere in which you've found your success, then that success is bound to be short-lived.

My counter point to this is fairly simple: luck is always a factor in life, an unavoidable one. No matter how hard you work and plan, if a company doesn't have an opening in your area of expertise you're not going to be able to advance in that area. You can develop additional skills that qualify you for other positions, attempt to find other ways to move up, etc, but some things are just going to come down to timing.

There's nothing wrong with this nor is it something you can change. It is something you can mitigate with proper planning etc, but there is always going to be an elemental of it in everything you do. The real trick is exploiting it to its fullest when those opportunities do arise.
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Trieste

Quote from: Tairis on July 22, 2013, 09:58:52 PM
My counter point to this is fairly simple: luck is always a factor in life, an unavoidable one. No matter how hard you work and plan, if a company doesn't have an opening in your area of expertise you're not going to be able to advance in that area. You can develop additional skills that qualify you for other positions, attempt to find other ways to move up, etc, but some things are just going to come down to timing.

There's nothing wrong with this nor is it something you can change. It is something you can mitigate with proper planning etc, but there is always going to be an elemental of it in everything you do. The real trick is exploiting it to its fullest when those opportunities do arise.

Okay, sure. The wonderful thing about the living of life is that there is more than one way to do so. :-)

TaintedAndDelish


If you passively let life's circumstances rail-road you into whatever corner it leads to, then yes, luck will be a very strong factor in determining where you end up. If you pick a realistic goal, identify the steps you need to get there and do the things you need to do, then you have a chance of steering yourself somewhere better. I personally prefer not to count on luck as its not something that I can control or predict.

Tairis

Quote from: TaintedAndDelish on July 23, 2013, 03:35:04 AM
If you passively let life's circumstances rail-road you into whatever corner it leads to, then yes, luck will be a very strong factor in determining where you end up. If you pick a realistic goal, identify the steps you need to get there and do the things you need to do, then you have a chance of steering yourself somewhere better. I personally prefer not to count on luck as its not something that I can control or predict.

Life isn't something you can control or predict. It's something that you can guide at best and react to. If a position in a highly contested field that you're interested in opens up when you're just out of school and haven't built up the experience to technically qualify for? That's luck, good or ill depending on how you react.

If you lay out a plan and you're willing to do whatever it takes to achieve it? Chances are you'll succeed. But things outside of your control (the retirement of a colleague, the failure or success of a related company, even the current economic conditions) are always going to make a significant difference.
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- Robert Heinlein

Oniya

There's a difference between relying on luck, and taking advantage of luck.  Any gambler will tell you that Lady Luck is an unreliable mistress, but lordy, do they like taking advantage of her.
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Trieste

Oh, look. A plotbunny.

*watches it hop through the thread*

Oniya

My work here is done!

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RubySlippers

Let's just ask: Does a person working full time for the minimum wage have a reasonable chance at finding affordable accommodation?

No, because over the last few decades wages have been left in the dust by the increased cost of housing.

Same with a car, what chance does a person making minimum wage have of purchasing and maintaining reasonable transportation: next to none.

Back in 1972 a tract house sold for $21,000... the same house goes for almost $400K today, $550K at the peak of the RE bubble.

The house costs 20 times what it did in 1972...generic bread over the same space of time has just about doubled... cars and gas are expensive, but not 20 times more expensive, in 1973 gas was under 50 cents a gallon, it would have to be $10 a gallon to have kept up with houses...

Even rents for many are just out of reach, I know lots of working homeless who are maybe $100 or so shy of being able to rent.

For the working poor the choices are rent a rundown room in a slum, share a house or apartment with someone or pitch a tent or live in a vehicle... buying a house or even just renting a place is just an impossible dream.

If the govt. were not so busy giving tax breaks to millionaires, starting bogus wars and "misplacing" $2.3 trillion dollars (like Rumsfeld admitted just two days before the 911 attacks...) if their priorities were different they could have set up lots of affordable housing and maybe even turned a modest profit on them...

But nyoooooo that's "sochulism!".

Valthazar

Ruby, I empathize with your plight, but you have stated in many posts that you are openly a 'slacker' and that you aspire to live life doing as little work as possible, and gaming the system to get by. 

So it is a bit ironic to lament about how hard it is to stay afloat today, when you yourself have said that you are not pushing yourself to your potential.

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RubySlippers

I'm not starving to death, and its not I don't want to work more just there are GOOD hours that is the best money per hour and not so good where I could work and get much less, so opt to go for the best money and not waste my time. Plus my standard of living is low frills I choose to use mass transit that is just $35 a month, my cell phone is paygo and I don't use it much, my clothes are from thrift stores, I go to the library for DVD's and books with the countywide exchange that is a huge resource and free etc. Health care was the only issue and the ACA Exchange the Federal Government will set-up will take care of that my income places me in the most support end of the provisions.

I just wanted to note the government didn't do much for decades to control prices and now its rather bad for some people.