I think straight, gay, and bisexual oriented people are all just as capable/incapable of love. I mean, because of how I was raised, I'm having a hard time knowing when someone is showing love towards me, and a hard time figuring out how to show love to others. I don't know if I'll ever figure it out. Lack of love from my family is affecting how I take in and give out love to the people in my life, so for the moment, my interest in females would be mostly sexual and not romantic, even though I do believe that merely valuing a woman just solely for her body is disrespectful and inappropriate (hence roleplaying sex, rather than actually engaging in it.) So I don't think someone's orientation has anything to do with lust overwhelming romantic love, it's on a person-to-person basis. I mean, didn't we already mention that it was bad to adhere to stereotypes...?