Is something wrong with me?

Started by Kakuja, June 16, 2011, 08:23:11 AM

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Kakuja

I posted in the one on one looking forum and havent gotten a single nibble sure I havent been very active here, though even still you figure youll get some attention.
I don't know what I'm doing wrong but as far as I can see...This place may not be the best for me due to some of the fetishes I do have..So should I try again by posting a few RP ideas out, or should I just leave?
https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=111464.msg4844029#msg4844029

Please RP with me as this place feels very empty to me.

Lilias

All the advice from here is still good. :-)
To go in the dark with a light is to know the light.
To know the dark, go dark. Go without sight,
and find that the dark, too, blooms and sings,
and is traveled by dark feet and dark wings.
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You can try posting a few more of your ideas.  You might also try the Ons & Offs in the tab at the very top of the page.  Setting up a profile for you Role Play Preferences can help others find you.  This is a search engine for members that functions in addition to the Forum Ons & Offs.

HairyHeretic

Story ideas are weird beasts. You can put up what you think is an absolutely amazing idea, and watch as the tumbleweeds roll slowly over it. Put the same story up three months later and you're trampled by a stampede of people eager to do it.

The more stories you offer up, the better your odds that one will appeal enough to someone to want to take up. Variations on the same base story concept can also work. Change the setting, for example.

You could also look at others requests .. some people may be advertising something you'd find equally interesting.
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Oniya

Linking your story idea in your signature (like you have with your O/O thread) is also a way to draw a few extra eyes. 
"Language was invented for one reason, boys - to woo women.~*~*~Don't think it's all been done before
And in that endeavor, laziness will not do." ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~Don't think we're never gonna win this war
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I do have a cause, though.  It's obscenity.  I'm for it.  - Tom Lehrer~*~All you need is your beautiful heart
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Kakuja

Made an O/O thing now I just need to post more RP ideas...Which is the hard part...
https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=111464.msg4844029#msg4844029

Please RP with me as this place feels very empty to me.

Nadir

Also, socialising can get you partners. And it fills the quiet time between posts. ^_^

Kakuja

Well yeah I could do that o.o now lets see...What to ad for....-goes around looking for players and thinking up ads-
https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=111464.msg4844029#msg4844029

Please RP with me as this place feels very empty to me.

nishi

try spicing up your ons/offs list a bit, just add any number of kinks you are interested in. I got quite some people sending me PMs from people with similar interests/kinks (well mine are a bit broad though)

Kakuja

I added as much as I could on that ...Ones that I was comfortable with....Not sure how I could possibly spice it up
https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=111464.msg4844029#msg4844029

Please RP with me as this place feels very empty to me.

Oniya

Just a note - you might want to make sure that the info in your O/O thread and your RP Preferences match.  Right now one says you're switch, leaning dominant, and the other one indicates only that you're submissive.
"Language was invented for one reason, boys - to woo women.~*~*~Don't think it's all been done before
And in that endeavor, laziness will not do." ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~Don't think we're never gonna win this war
Robin Williams-Dead Poets Society ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~Don't think your world's gonna fall apart
I do have a cause, though.  It's obscenity.  I'm for it.  - Tom Lehrer~*~All you need is your beautiful heart
O/O's Updated 5/11/21 - A/A's - Current Status! - Writing a novel - all draws for Fool of Fire up!
Requests updated March 17

lollipop

As for spicing up your Ons/Offs post ... check out the O/O threads of the more established players and see how they do it.

Many not only include kinks, but settings and genres they enjoy ... both cannon and non cannon; what they expect from partners; what sort of stories they want to tell or try telling.

You can pick up a ton of ideas from other O/Os ... and as a female partner, it's very helpful to read an O/O thread that is well detailed and thought out. Personally, I'm more likely to choose a partner with a very detailed partner over one who says "just ask me".

Kakuja

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Quote from: Oniya on June 18, 2011, 09:36:46 PM
Just a note - you might want to make sure that the info in your O/O thread and your RP Preferences match.  Right now one says you're switch, leaning dominant, and the other one indicates only that you're submissive.

oh right ill fix that

umm I dont see what your talking about....
https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=111464.msg4844029#msg4844029

Please RP with me as this place feels very empty to me.

Oniya

From your Roleplaying Preferences, under your avatar:

Characters I Play
Male characters who: Submit,
And are attracted to: Females,

From your O/Os, linked in your signature:

Quote from: Kakuja on July 28, 2010, 08:52:12 AM
I am switch but I lean towards a Dominate side of things but I am willing to try being a submissive. I like amines/mangas, cartoons, science channels, video games, drawing and writing stories.
"Language was invented for one reason, boys - to woo women.~*~*~Don't think it's all been done before
And in that endeavor, laziness will not do." ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~Don't think we're never gonna win this war
Robin Williams-Dead Poets Society ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~Don't think your world's gonna fall apart
I do have a cause, though.  It's obscenity.  I'm for it.  - Tom Lehrer~*~All you need is your beautiful heart
O/O's Updated 5/11/21 - A/A's - Current Status! - Writing a novel - all draws for Fool of Fire up!
Requests updated March 17

Kakuja

ohhh i see lemme fix that as im the sub ^^
https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=111464.msg4844029#msg4844029

Please RP with me as this place feels very empty to me.

Maxwell Malamute

Hope your luck improves, but your not alone. I'm newer, but in the same boat...no nibbles, so far. I'm trying to post and be as social as I can in the mean-time, and trying to figure out how edit my siggy and put in links.

Well, good luck. Maybe we should start a 'My interests sre too obscure thread'  :P
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Kakuja

Hehehe maybe but I posted a one for one thing and so far no nibbles maybe Im posting wrong idk but...The worst thing about rpie places is the wait....
https://elliquiy.com/forums/index.php?topic=111464.msg4844029#msg4844029

Please RP with me as this place feels very empty to me.

Belle33

You might want to write a short story or two and posting them in the Storytelling forum (don't forget to link them to your signature).  I linked a few of my stories and poems to my signature, and was able to connect with people that way.  This provides readers with a hint of your writing style as well. 

While you're at it, you might review a few stories and provide feedback to those of interest.  Again, just something to start a dialogue.  I'm not sure about anyone else, but I haven't done an RP with anyone I didn't get to know a little first.  But, I'm fairly new and that may not generally be necessary. 

Of course, it might be also be a good idea to consider the story requests from other members.  Nothing wrong with a little quid pro quo.

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lollipop

Wonderful advice, Belle33. ~applauds~

ClockworkShadow

Indeed, very good advice, Belle33 :)

Though, now I'm worried I made my signature a little too long :/

Anyway, hello to you, Kakuja.  Nice to meet you!  Wish you the best of luck with your RP endeavors! :)


A/A

^ zee-oh-em-gee, it has an update ^
I am back... sort of.  I'm trying, anyway.
o_O

Oniya

You really don't need to include the 'if you are an approved L/L/L' bit - non members don't have access to PMs.  You could simply say 'I'm still mulling over ideas for my O/O's.  If you want to get to know me, feel free to PM!'  (or words to that effect.)
"Language was invented for one reason, boys - to woo women.~*~*~Don't think it's all been done before
And in that endeavor, laziness will not do." ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~Don't think we're never gonna win this war
Robin Williams-Dead Poets Society ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~Don't think your world's gonna fall apart
I do have a cause, though.  It's obscenity.  I'm for it.  - Tom Lehrer~*~All you need is your beautiful heart
O/O's Updated 5/11/21 - A/A's - Current Status! - Writing a novel - all draws for Fool of Fire up!
Requests updated March 17

ClockworkShadow

Quote from: Oniya on July 01, 2011, 03:22:57 PM
You really don't need to include the 'if you are an approved L/L/L' bit - non members don't have access to PMs.  You could simply say 'I'm still mulling over ideas for my O/O's.  If you want to get to know me, feel free to PM!'  (or words to that effect.)

Good point.


A/A

^ zee-oh-em-gee, it has an update ^
I am back... sort of.  I'm trying, anyway.
o_O