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It never ceases to amuse me when someone tells me that they have always thought I was a Dominant person. I giggle when I hear someone say that they are surprised to find that I have a Master and that I identify as a submissive. I have long sat down to figure out exactly why people seem to view me has more dominant then submissive until they get to know me, and I have come up with several reasons, all revolving around perceptions.

In this next part of an ongoing series, since it has been requested by popular demand that I continue further with my blogs on such relationships, I will be attempting to describe the bare bones of the lifestyle. This is the very basics of the lifestyle, not detailed as details should be worked out between a dom and a sub themselves, and not modeled after another D/s relationship no matter how successful.

Since I started writing submissive blogs or blogs on my personal lifestyle choices I have had many pm's with questions in general. I encourage questions, as knowledge is power and I feel the understanding of lifestyles will help others not be forced to hide it, or face ridicule. This blog will be dealing with the basis of a D/s relationship, and throwing down some misconceptions that seem to have arisen.

There are a myriad of kinks out there. Some are strange, some are not so strange. Some are ho-hum for people who have been "in the scene" for a while. And some are so out there that only those that are into them really understand them. I know I've talked about a lot of D/s stuff, and I'm going to talk about it more. I talk about it a lot because it is one of my favourite kinks, and one from which many others spring. That is, of course, why you're reading, I expect. So here we are, standing together, hand in hand. Your palm is kinda sweaty, though.

Ok first of all let us establish that for this little blot on the blog space, when I say someone is submissive, of the submissive mindset, or otherwise I am talking in general not in just about sexuality. In fact for most of this blog, if it continues on the course I am thinking of at the moment, mostly will be discussing the submissive personality outside of the bedroom. The pros, the cons, and why I -and many more- are wired this way.